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Women are
referred to as "weaker sex", and the reason being that they
are more vulnerable to crime whether it is rape, assault,
molestation and other types of physical & sexual harassment.
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A survey conducted has resulted in to a crime statistics
that states:
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Around 78
rapes are committed each hour in America.
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Four women in
a day get murdered by their abusive partners.
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25% of girls
will be sexually assaulted by the time they are 18-years
old.
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14% of all
Americans women admitted having been subjected to violent
abuse by their male partners.
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29% of all
violence against women by a lone offender was by an intimate
from 1992 to 1993.
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25% of rapes
take place in a public area or a parking garage.
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75% of every
rape is committed by the person known to the victim.
These
statistics are shocking. They demonstrate this vulnerability
to violent crimes the most atrocious of them is rape. Rape
causes mental as well as physical harm to a woman. The
trauma that she undergoes is immense, nerve breaking and
never-ending.
The increasing number of crimes against women has raised a
red flag for many people across the globe. An undisputed
truth about rape is that "stranger" rapes only constitute a
minute number of rapes. The most intimidating fact about
this crime is that a huge number is committed by the person
known to the victim.
It is wrong to refer rape as a "human interaction" more than
a crime. It may seem quite strange to protect yourself from
a person you know and interact with on a regular basis. The
key is to know the facts about the crime, the psychology of
a criminal and how best to protect yourself.
Knowing Facts About Rape:
Stranger rapes only constitute between 10 and 13 percent of
all rapes. 87 to 90 percent of all rapes are by someone
acquainted with the victim.
Understanding Psychology Of A Rapist
Rapists appear to lead double lives. They seem just like
ordinary men. They may be members of any religion, race,
profession or socioeconomic group under the sun. Age is no
bar and many of them are successful in carrying a reputable
name in society as dedicated family men.
Rapists are men with serious personality or psychology
disorders. They prefer discharging these disorders through
sexual violence. This genre of men is not intimidated by
logical consideration as punishment, ill effects to victim
or disgrace. Rapists are generally aggressive or violent
with anger and power being the dominant component of the
act.
How To Identify A Rapist
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Self-Centered: Does a person acquainted to you appear to
be a narcissistic? Keep tabs on the specific characteristics
of men around you. Watch out for people considering their
desires more important than other peoples' welfare, or who
try to justify a heinous act. They may be the danger signs.
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Anger:
A person who gets enraged for a minor or no reason at all
often look for targets to take out their anger on and the
method of the process would be rape, physical combat,
molestation or abuse.
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Alcoholic
Or Drug Addict: Alcohol & drugs may not be the cause of
bad behavior but they can increase the probability of crime.
These traits are common among rapists as well as
professional criminals. Most criminals become intentionally
intoxicated to ignore the social restrictions & inhibitions
regarding violence.
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Extreme
Mood Swings: Stay away from someone who can easily
become extremely happy and get deeply hurt the second
moment. This kind of personality can result into a mood to
take revenge just because you "hurt him".
Defense
against the Crime
Knowing some facts about rape and psychology of a rapist
may make you aware of your environment and help you stay
away from a potential criminal but it is more important to
be prepared to fight back or escape in the event an incident
occurs.
The best way to prepare against different possible threats
is to practice certain self-defense rules.
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The first
method is to contact a self-defense trainer and learn the
tricks. A self-defense program would teach you about how to
save yourself from the crime and hit the criminal at the
right spot, at the right time.
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Buy DVDs, on self defense
training.
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Keep
practicing the self-defense skills "practice
makes perfect".
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Avoid places
and situations where crime may occur.
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Be aware of
your surroundings.
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Run or defend
yourself as soon as you suspect danger.
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Avoid walking
in the streets wearing conspicuous jewelry.
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Hitchhiking
may become the prime cause of being a victim of rape. So be
cautious and use buses or taxis.
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Never act or
appear as an easy target.
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Carry a body
language that exhibits loads of self-confidence. It is quite
possible to stop the crime if you maintain eye contact and
are not intimidated by the criminal.
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Use your
environment to confront the criminal. Remember that
everything including things around you, on you & with you
can be used assure your safety.
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Act! This
should be your ultimate mantra. Scream, scratch, bite, hit,
attack or kick. Do all that you think is required to escape
from the crime.
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Ashtrays,
safety pins, bottles, chairs, utensils, compass, pen and the
like can be effectively used as indoor self-defense objects.
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If you are
outside your home & threatened, then you can consider
striking your opponent with anything you can get your hands
on.
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Carry and
learn how to use non lethal self defense weapons such as
pepper spray, stun guns or personal alarms.
Adopting a
self-defense program or a self-defensive attitude will
enhance your self-confidence and power to fight back.
Another interesting thing you can adopt is to keep tracking
newest inventions in the category of self-defense rules and
non lethal self defense products.
One such self-defense product developed by a South African
woman, Sonette Ehlers, is known as "Rapex". It may be well
defined as the anti-rape female condom.
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